July222010

Never tell someone you love them because you feel obligated to.

This will be my tiny rant.

I have known people, young and old, who constantly tell their significant other they love them. Half the time I feel as though they’re just saying it just to say it. “Oh, look at me. I have a girlfriend/boyfriend and we love each other.” Yeah? Really? Can’t wait to see you guys break up a week from now. Yes, I realize that sounds completely mean. But it really gets to me when people days into their relationship proclaim their love to one another.

Also, if you love somebody, you shouldn’t have to tell them all the freaking time. I tell my boyfriend that I love him every day, but it’s not overly used. Sometimes when he tells me he loves me I don’t feel the need to tell him I love him back. He should already know how I feel for him. There are other ways of expressing love other than constantly saying those words. If you say it too much it loses its meaning. So instead of always saying it back, I give him a kiss on the cheek or smile. That should be enough to show it, right?

It should never be overused, but you must also find the balance between using it and not using it.

Just saying.

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